Perkongsian terbaru di laman Instagram The Family UK nyata menyentvh perasaan apabila Fatimah difahamkan telah diser4ng Anx1ety.

Dikatakan, kej4dian berlaku kira-kira pukul 4.00 pagi.

Malah, setiap kata yang dilu4hkan anak kecil ini seperti menggambarkan kesed1han yang bers4rang dalam hatinya.

Menurut si ibu, pada mulanya dia menyangka Fatimah mendapat m1mpi bvruk.

Namun dia sedar ada sesuatu yang tidak kena apabila Fatimah mula berdiam d1ri dan seakan-akan sukar bernafas.

Apa yang menyedihkan, Fatimah turut merindui arw4h Adam Didam dan ketakut4n apabila Athisha pulang ke Malaysia dan tidak akan kembali lagi bersama mereka.

“ANX1ETY ATT4CK

“Semalam, Fatiman mendapat ser4ngan anx1ety pada pukul 4 pagi. Pada mulanya saya menyangka dia hanya mempunyai m1mpi bvruk, jadi saya minta dia tidur kembali.

“Dia berdiam d1ri dan tidak mahu bercakap. Selepas beberapa minit, dia mula bernafas dengan kuat. Dan pada waktu itu saya tahu ada sesuatu yang tidak kena. Saya ten4ngkan d1ri dahulu jika tidak keadaan akan jadi lebih tervk.

“Jadi saya dekatkan d1ri dan mintanya berten4ng. Fatimah mula menang1s.

“Saya mahu Mamajee. Saya takut. Kakak Athisha akan pergi dan tidak akan pulang seperti Mamajee,” kata Fatimah.

“Pada waktu ini saya sedar, punca ser4ngan anx1ety kerana kepulangan Athisha ke Malaysia sempena sambvtan Krismas. Perp1sahan menyebabkannya diser4ng panik. Dia tidak mahu ke sekolah, menol4k sarapan pagi dan sering menang1s.

“Namun syukur kami punya lebihan lasagne, makanan kegemarannya. Selepas makan tengahari, suami membawa Fatimah keluar membeli belah untuk mengh1rup udara segar.

“Alhamdulillah, dia bertambah baik dan bersedia untuk ke sekolah,” kongsinya.

Menurutnya, ser4ngan ini bukan hanya terjadi kepada orang dewasa, kanak-kanak juga tidak terkecuali.

“Saya kongsikan isu ini untuk semua ibu bapa di luar sana. Anx1ety itu wujud, bukan sahaja di kalangan orang dewasa, namun juga kanak-kanak.

“Ia bukan petanda kita lem4h, malah bukan untuk mencari perhatian. Ia adalah proses normal kesed1han. Tolong jangan biarkan emos1 anak-anak terabai.

“Jika anda melalui proses yang sama, ketahuilah anda tidak keseorangan. Terus bertahan. Kuatkan d1ri. Jika ia bertambah p4rah, tolong dapatkan rawatan profesional.

“Terima kasih Athisha kerana mengangkat telefon pada tengah malam dan maaf kerana membuat kamu risau.

“Tolong jangan fikir berlebihan kerana Fatimah sudah ok. Selamat bercuti dan jumpa lagi selepas tahun baru,” tvlisnya panjang lebar.

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Last night, Fatimah had an anxiety attack ‪at 4am‬. At first, I thought she was just having a bad dream, so I told her to go back to sleep. She was quiet for a while, refusing to talk. But a few minutes later, she started to hyperventilate. Only then did I realise there was something wrong with her. The very first thing that I did was calm myself down, because if I panic, she will get worse. So I pulled myself together and told her to calm down. She started crying… . She then said, "I want Mamajee! I’m scared! Kakak Athisha is leaving and she won’t come back like Mamajee." . At that point, I understood that the cause of her anxiety attack was because Athisha was going back to Malaysia for the Christmas holidays. So now, I realise that separation seems to trigger her anxiety. She couldn’t make it to school, refused to have breakfast and she was crying on and off for a few hours. But luckily, we had some leftover lasagna – her favourite – so we finally managed to convince her to eat. After lunch, Mr Dad took her out shopping for a bit of fresh air. Alhamdulillah, she looks a lot better now and she said that she’s going back to school. . I’m sharing this to reach out to other parents out there. Anxiety is real. Anxiety exists. Not only in adults, but children too. Anxiety is not a sign of weakness. Anxiety is not attention-seeking. Anxiety is a common part of the grieving process. Please do not neglect your children’s emotional wellbeing. If you too are going through a similar experience, please know that you are not alone. Hang in there. Be strong. And if things get worse, please seek professional help. . Love, Mrs Mom xx #wisemomsays . 💌Thank you Kakak @athishakhan for picking up the phone in the middle of the night, and sorry for making you worried. Please don’t think too much – Fatimah is OK now. Enjoy your holiday. We’ll see you after the New Year. . 💌Thank you @drauntie.uk for always being ready to support us, no matter where you are. We miss you so much. Can’t wait to see you soon! . 💌Thank you Mama Love @noorkartini for taking time out of your busy schedule to talk to Fatimah even though you aren’t well yourself. We pray that you’ll feel better soon.

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